Real friendship is a slow grower and never thrives unless engrafted upon a stock of known and reciprocal merit .

真正的友谊是慢慢增长起来的，决不会突如其来，除非已有深入了解，相互看重。

Kjv wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness , and receive with meekness the engrafted word , which is able to save your souls .

新译本所以你们应当摆脱一切污秽和所有的邪恶，以温柔的心领受神栽种的道；这道能救你们的灵魂。