May I ask you a question : do you have bf ?

我可不可以问你一个问题：你有男朋友吗？

When my bf and I moved from seattle , I packed them up and kept them on my desk until just a few days ago .

当我和我男朋友搬离西雅图时，我把它们包在一起，放在我的桌面上，直到几天前才打开。

Wherever I am , no matter what city or what country , apartment , house or hotel . If bf is with me , I feel like it 's home .

无论我在哪里，不管是城市还是乡村，公寓、别墅还是宾馆，如果男朋友和我一起，我觉得那就是家。

The key is that your bf or gf is into you for who you are - for your great sense of humor , your love of reality tv , etc. does your partner listen when you say you 're not comfortable doing something and then back off right away ?

关键在于你的男朋友（或女朋友）是否欣赏真实的你你的强大的幽默感，或者你对电视真人秀的喜爱等等。当你的另一半听你说不喜欢做一些事情后，会不会马上退缩？

Update : bf has since pared down his wardrobe and now I have to do laundry every week if he is working .

更新一下：后来我男友减少了他的衣服，而如果他工作的话，我就必须每两周洗一次衣服。