These are men who never heard of helicopter parenting .

他们这群人从未听说过“直升机式养育”。

Instead of looking for a partner in parenting , older people just want to have fun .

不再是为了寻找一个伴侣来共同抚养孩子，年长的人们约会仅仅是为了找乐子。

Such frenzied fascination with foreign parenting raises a question : are american parents really that bad ?

这些疯狂的外来教养孩子的方法产生了一个问题：美国家长是否真的很残忍？

That 's just the way parenting goes .

这正是现在父母们养育孩子的方式。

In other words , parent yourself vicariously through parenting your own children .

换言之，通过养育自己的孩子达到补偿自己的目的。