The reward has let oneself become arrogant or modesty ?

取得的奖励让自己变得傲慢还是谦虚？

Which makes learning to like oneself no easy task .

学会喜欢自己并不是一个容易的任务。

Friends scorn let oneself become depressed or jealous common ?

朋友的讥笑让自己变得压抑还是嫉俗？

Ruminating too much about oneself can become a vicious cycle .

过多地为自己考虑可能陷入一个恶性循环。

Far more important is to take intellectual responsibility for oneself .

更主要的是，为自己的理智行为负责。