Overall , mothers and fathers with four children of any gender were more likely to find family life a struggle , with mornings , mealtimes and bedtimes the most common sources of conflict .

总体而言，有四个孩子（无论男女）的父母更有可能为家庭生活烦恼，清晨、用餐时间和睡觉时间是最常发生冲突的时段。

Eating this way is a pleasure to him : he grew up with five siblings on a farm in south carolina , where mealtimes were chaotic affairs and the sounds of loud eating were a sign of appreciation .

这种吃法对他来说是一种乐趣：他和五个兄弟姐妹从小在南卡罗来纳州的一个农场长大。