If they once judged themselves on looks , kids , hubbies , gardens and dinner parties , now they judge themselves on looks , kids , hubbies , gardens , dinner parties - and grad school , work , office deadlines and meshing a two-career marriage .

如果她们曾经以相貌、孩子、爱好、花园、晚餐来评价自己，那么现在她们评价自己的方面除了相貌、孩子、爱好、花园、外餐外，还有研究生院的表现、工作、办公截止时间以及让两个职业相配的婚姻。