Next time your spouse is being a grump leave them be for a while , give them some space physically and mentally .

下一次你的伴侣发火的时候让其单独呆一会儿，给予其身体上和心灵上一些空间。

In his book the geography of bliss : one grump 's search for the happiest places in the world , weiner immerses himself in the cultural fabric of the world 's happiest countries to pinpoint exactly why residents of some countries , like iceland and switzerland , are so downright satisfied with their lives .

在他的书《天佑之地：一个牢骚鬼寻找世界上最快乐的地方》中，韦纳每到一个最快乐的国家，都会把自己沉浸在当地的文化中，找出究竟为什么像冰岛和瑞士这类国家的居民会对自己的生活如此心满意足。