When someone is unkind to you , try responding with gentleness .

当有人对你并不友善，试着回以亲切。

For a long time , I thought of compassion as softness , as kindness , and as gentleness .

很长的一段时间，我认为同情是温和的，和蔼的，就跟彬彬有礼一样。

It denigrates and belittles the qualities needed to care , such as patience and gentleness .

它贬低和轻视了照顾质量，例如耐心和善。

But in some ways the gentleness - and the relentless cheerfulness - of the video may in the end make it even more of a challenge to the consumer society it satirizes .

但是在某些方面充满温和和无情欢乐的视频最后可能会带来对挖苦消费者的社会带来更大的挑战。

The message has an emotional tone that is authentically sad / fearful / angry and at the same time , is by marked by a rueful calm , by gentleness , and by courage .

这里边有一种真正悲哀/恐惧/愤怒的情绪化腔调，与此同时又带有悔恨的平静、温顺和勇气。