The person who lies according to the flesh is consistent with the disputant of this aeon .

凭肉体说谎话的人,与这世代的辩者是一致的.

The mediator first tells one party that he or she must " give the mediator face " by accepting what is proposed . Contained in the proposal is a face-saving gesture for the other disputant .

他先要求一方当事人接受提议，从而“给中间人一个面子”，这提议之中也包含一个顾全另一方当事人面子的姿态。