Realize what bothers you may not bother your friend .

要知道让你感到烦扰的问题未必烦扰你的朋友。

What bothers her out there in the world ?

世界上有什么烦扰着她？

But the fact that choice is turning out not to mean much bothers parents a lot .

但事实是选择不是给家长带来更多麻烦的结果。

And what bothers me most is that no one asked me what was happening .

而且最烦扰我的是没有人问过我有什么事情在发生。

Don 't expect your relationship to improve if you aren 't telling your partner what bothers you .

如果你不告诉你的另一半到底是什么问题烦扰着你，那就别指望能改善你们之间的关系。