1. 调和，协调（两种信仰、事实或要求）
    If you reconcile two beliefs, facts, or demands that seem to be opposed or completely different, you find a way in which they can both be true or both be successful.

    e.g. It's difficult to reconcile the demands of my job and the desire to be a good father...
           我很难做到既兼顾工作，又达成做个好父亲的愿望。
    e.g. We suggest that it is possible to reconcile these apparently opposing perspectives...
           我们认为这两个看似对立的观点是可以调和的。

2. 使和好;使和解
    If you are reconciled with someone, you become friendly with them again after a quarrel or disagreement.

reconcile的解释

    e.g. He never believed he and Susan would be reconciled...
           他从来没想过自己和苏珊会和解。
    e.g. Devlin was reconciled with the Catholic Church in his last few days.
           德夫林在生命的最后几天与天主教会达成和解。

3. 使和好如初
    If you reconcile two people, you make them become friends again after a quarrel or disagreement.

    e.g. ...my attempt to reconcile him with Toby.
           我想使他与托比和好的努力

4. 顺从;接受;将就
    If you reconcile yourself to an unpleasant situation, you accept it, although it does not make you happy to do so.

    e.g. She had reconciled herself to never seeing him again.
           她说服了自己永远不再和他见面。