But it behooves us to examine the models that underpin them .

但是我们应该深入检查支撑它们的各种模型。

So it behooves each partner to clearly understand the real reason behind their behavior .

所以每一对伴侣都有必要去弄明白他们行为背后的真正原因。

It behooves us to pause and take a look at the forces that led us here , and what we might do to prevent another occurrence .

这理应使我们停下来看一看驱使我们到达这里的力量，这会防止此类事件再次发生。

Your create your reality according to your beliefs and expectations , therefore it behooves you to examine them carefully .

你按照你的信念和期望创造了自己的现实，所以你理应由对它们审慎地检查。

This decision was made on the basis of my and yu jie 's determination to back out , and behooves us to take responsibility for the hurt this decision caused you .

这一决定是在我和余杰坚持退出的情形下作出的，理应由我们负担这一决定对你的伤害。